Friday, December 28, 2018

Panipat-the Positivity Incarnate


Ten months ago when I received the marching orders from land of Srimad Bhagwadgita to historic Panipat, I had come without any expectation as I had little idea about my new place of work. The strange ness has its own charm and challenge. The warm welcome by people of Panipat was, I confess, unexpected but ofcourse very comforting and enthusing. The aura of open ness and affection set the tune and I could feel the strings inside yearning to compose a new song, sing once more in what hitherto seemed a strange land. In services the only certainty is uncertainty of tenure and this aspect enables one live (in Milton's words) 'what thou liv'st / live well/ long or short/ permit to Heaven.' 

The first public encounter was through a media organised interaction on the issues that the city was seized of.  The participation of people was encouraging, their grievances genuine, their anger justified, their angst against apathy and indifference of certain departments absolutely logical. And I did realise that they were sensitively concerned about 'the issues' affecting lives of common man; their ability and participation to be heard bespoke of their concern for Panipat, their own Panipat which had been ravaged by battle after battle yet built over and again by the relentless efforts of the people. 

Amidst the arena of positive expectations and silent but somehow assured peoples' participation, the agenda was set -not too long spread nor too impractical or idealistic but to take small steps and endeavour to do things that mean the most to the comman citizen of Panipat regardless of age, gender, ability and intellect. 
Small initiatives like Bus Queue shelter under elevated corridor, painting of pillars along this route, organising the fortnightly event of Raahgiri have brought rich dividend in terms of public participation, appreciation, inculcation of ownership amongst well meaning youth force of the town. An aura of enthusiasm the city abounds in, just-ready-to-say-I-can-do kind of zeal is heart touching indeed. I really wonder if a handful of enthusiasts have enabled change the overall environs, what would not happen for the good in Panipat if the population as a whole i.e. all the men, women, young people, children, teachers, businessmen, officers and employees, entrepreneurs and exporters start feeling with same gusto that its 'my Panipat (mera Panipat) !! The city needs the midas touch of affection and ownership by its own citizens, the wonders, it seems, are just about to happen.

Once I had written about the Pehowa spirit which taught me 'nothing is impossible' and I owe my gratitude to Pehowa for this. In my three decades if career, its Panipat which I feel has the potential and the spirit, the positivity incarnate this city is and all that is needed is the torch bearer amongst youth, icons, persons in seats of responsibility to lead the city in the direction of fulfilment of its dreams as the clean, green, well managed city. With back end support of administration 'ek prayas' can be a game changer; public schools too can come out of their elite environs to lend a helping hand in enhancing the happiness quotient of Panipat; all the local NGOs may join hands (as they do in celebrating Dussehra, Chelaiya, Gita Mahitsav) and put their best foot forward to make each ward competitively cleaner, parks greener, streets safe, traffic rules' following as a matter ofcourse; and who knows that business houses and exporters may come forward on their own to adopt a traffic junction or an area for upkeep of its street lights and maintenance of roads !! I see a healthy beginning having been made in 2018, the spirit of positivity may bloom and spread its fragrance and sunshine to enlighten Panipat in 2019.  

Amen

Thursday, December 27, 2018

Pitaji's Sher Puttar


Meenakshi di was born third in the family but she was number one in so many ways: she was the tallest amongst all seven sisters; she was the best in sports and remained the Best Athlete during all four years in college; she was an all rounder- the best in theatre, the best speaker, the best in cracking jokes and instilling loud laughter; she was the smartest of us all; she was the most courageous daughter, a doting wife and mother.

Meenakshi di was different. When I was school going child, she would often have to complete my home work when my little strength and patience gave way. She was our role model in 'pitthoo' where she remained unchallenged champion for years amongst boys and girls of street no. 7, Abohar. She was not very studious and would always steal time to shirk for a hit in the street. In 'geete', she excelled with her broad hands and focussed attent. And in playground, she was unbeatable in athletics, shot put, discuss throw. When on stage, her oratory skills would mesmerise as she spoke with authority. It was due to these qualities of head and heart that she she was offered lectureship in DAV College, Abohar by Late Sh. ND Grover Principal even before her MA II result was declared. Pitaji was very fond of his third kamau puttar. She directed a number of dramas and also the one titled 'byah ka ghar' wherein she acted with other lecturer colleagues to showcase their theatre skills to students !

She was my teacher and mentor in college and taught us Economics. While explaining Keynsian law of diminishing marginal utility, she would often use the (mouth watering) example of gulabjamuns. She was strict disciplinarian and uncompromising, meticulous manager of events. Hordes of memories I find deluged with how she was a friend to her students and a very dedicated NSS programme officer. She made the whole of family including my father take part in manually cleaning of place in Bodiwala village she had organised camp in.

She had a brilliant career and rose to become Director, Ministry of Home Affairs, GOI after her elevation in the IES . She had an indomitable spirit and resilience. She could not hide if she was angry and the transparency in her nature endeared her to all peer and kin. She was so full of life, valued relationships and untiringly made efforts to keep the glow of warmth alive with her zeal and zest and above all uncomplaining nature. She gave the world two wonderful daughters Megha and Sugandha who are doing so well in their career. Bless them. 

God had willed short span for her in this life and we lost her when she was just 50. It us beyond human comprehension as to why lives as hers have to be so short. Miss you, Meenakshi di all the more on this day. Happy birthday.